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2010 Orphanage Therapy Trip

 

Working together to help all children at the orphanage in Fuling, China thrive and reach their potential.   

                                   


Practice, Practice, Practice
June 5. 2010

This morning Dr. Zha and Yang Pei Feng wanted to give the caregivers a chance to practice what they had learned earlier this week from Sandra and Nancy. 

They also had questions about more children they wanted help evaluating.  We set to work early in order to see as many children as possible.

One little girl the therapists had not met earlier was pointed out by Dr. Zha and Yang Pei Feng.

Both women were very concerned about Lily, a 20 month old.  She seemed to have a general lack of affect.    How could they and her aunties help Lily to grow physically stronger and more interactive?

Nancy showed ways to encourage Lily to hold herself more erect and work her core muscles.   Dr. Zha also noted how given the opportunity, Lily would drift away from the other children rather than interact.   Sandra and Nancy encouraged the staff to gently but firmly draw her back in to play.   

Lily needs more intensive "face time" than other children in order to learn to take and give visual cues.   Dr. Zha and the therapists showed Lily's First Hugs auntie simple ways in which she could help. 

As the day progressed, the strategy for how to best assist the aunties in their work with the children became one of practicality:  Children with disabilities would receive therapy integrated as much as possible into their daily routines.   

This means helping a child learn to hold a spoon during lunch time and to practice transferring from bed to a chair in the morning while he is getting up. 

This approach would help the aunties manage more than one child at once and help the child gain tangible skills useful in every day living.  

Children with disabilities living anywhere in the world thrive best when they have a parent to advocate for them and the financial support, often substantial, necessary to get them the medical and therapeutic intervention they need.  These children have no family, although the staff work hard to give them a loving home.

The rising number of children with special needs at the orphanage makes it impossible to provide every child with the full-time care giver and the intensive therapy each of them would need for more rapid improvement. 

But even without families, miracles can occur for these kids with the right training and the right techniques at the right time.  Kindness, determination and practical education go a long way in bringing a child toward independence and growth!

Between sessions with individual children Nancy and Sandra demonstrated on the staff skills they could use to help children, such as learning to stand, roll over, and build core strength.  

Staff learned what it felt like to the child to receive different kinds of therapies as well as how to recognize body points they would focus upon when working with the children.  

Nancy and Sandra emphasized slow, careful treatments that would help without risk of hurting.

The other constant goal will be to make the environment as rich as possible for the children.  Because of their disabilities, many of the kids will grow up in the orphanage.   Integrating joyful learning into their daily lives is crucial.  

The children will learn at different rates and will need to work harder at building different skills.  Learning for them must take place in an atmosphere that is both structured and yet open enough to accommodate their individual needs.

As we collaborate with the orphanage staff this coming year to develop a special needs classroom, the kids can continue to learn with simple methods integrated into the playrooms throughout the orphanage.   The children's avid curiosity and energy makes them great little students already!


Learning from Each Other
June 5. 2010

One of the keys to good cross-cultural training and team building is recognizing what we can learn from each other in order to best help the children.    FKI's history with the orphanage--almost ten years in the making!--has been crucial our in finding common ground.  

Kathlene and Jenoys met with Director Chen and orphanage programming directors Huang Yan and Dr. Zha several times during this amazing week in order to assess how the programs FKI helped create and fund are doing.  

We talked about so many of the children we'd like to help, and Director Chen and orphanage staff spoke to us about the successes and challenges they've experienced with the kids. 

The urgency to create a special needs classroom was one of our chief topics of conversation, along with the most efficient way to provide therapy.  We all agreed these were our highest priorities.

Some of our long discussion sessions were spent brainstorming together how FKI's focus on education--for staff and children--could best support the goals the orphanage staff have for the children. 

These little residents are the ones the programs are created for, so we all had to listen to them as well!

We also considered how to best help the caregivers, who are facing challenges as they work with children with more complex needs.   Care giving for children with special needs can be exhausting work.  

These women have helped hundreds of children thrive and reach loving homes.  They bring a rich, practical experience to all they do at the orphanage, so building on their knowledge and heart is on everyone's mind.

The next step is finding creative ways to get these caring staff more of the support, training and relief they need to continue to do their good work.

Certainly the new orphanage's accessibility-friendly facility and gorgeous location has gone a long way toward enhancing the possibilities for the children with special needs. 

All of us on the team were impressed with the green, beautiful grounds and play places.   The older residents we met were interested to share what they know as well!   Social welfare institutes in China are also home to the elderly without families.

We encountered several of these lovely people on our daily walks to and from the dining hall for lunch and as we caught the staff shuttle bus back to Fuling at the end of the day.

The age of some of the women was amazing--one we met was 100!  We were impressed by their spry, healthy attitudes.

Nancy received an impromptu Tai Qi lesson from one of the "grandmas."

 

 

The positive outlook of the staff and elderly is contagious. They stay upbeat while facing tough questions and needs.  We were inspired by their "can do attitudes." The senior staff and caregivers are invested in the training and ideas we've shared with them.  

We all left our meetings with lists of what can each bring back to the table in order to best work as an international team in this ongoing effort to improve the lives of these great kids.  

Certainly the kids are the most inspiring of all, although a few of us may take "learn from the children" a little too literally! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Checking on Our Foster Kids
June 4. 2010

Our hard-working therapists Nancy and Sandra and FKI volunteers Kathlene and Jenoys were taken by the orphanage staff to visit foster children in their homes.   Huang Yan, director of the foster care program, wanted us to see two of our sponsored children.   One of the children was a four year old girl who seems reluctant to speak, and the other a six year old boy with autism.  

Those foster families wanted some support and feedback, and so we were welcomed into each comfortable home--one close by the old orphanage site in downtown Fuling and the other not far from the Yangtze River.  

The therapists made quick progress with the little girl, after showing her foster mom and grandma fun ways to help her talk.   (Sandra put together a little wooden airplane and flew it in the room.  That was quite a hit!)

The foster child with autism looks beautifully cared for, but his needs are more intense.  His foster mother and father need more support.  The therapists gave them some excellent ideas and showed some techniques to help him.   His foster father asked good questions about his foster son.  You could see he was struggling with understanding his son's mannerisms and challenges.  

The understanding of autism is just beginning to spread in China.   After visiting this little guy and his worried foster parents, we put doing more to help children with autism on our list of FKI's priorities.   We were not able to get photos in the foster homes to show you, so we are sharing with you some pix of other great kids:

The photos in this blog entry are all of foster children sponsored by FKI donors. 

Most have a mild disability of some kind.   They are mostly of school age and receive loving care in their foster families, who send them to school.  

We got to see so many of the kids at the same time, because several gathered at the orphanage for an afternoon in order to celebrate Children's Day.

They are a playful, energetic bunch.   We visited with them all for a little while--okay, we played like crazy wth them for an hour or so, because these kids have high energy levels!

We played ball, and one of our Chinese volunteers read stories to one of our older, sponsored children, a gentle girl with a mild mental disability.  

The children look great!  Thank you to everyone who has donated to FKI's Foster Care Program.  You have given a child a family.


Time Out for Babies
June 3. 2010

The FKI team took a few short breaks from therapy work with the toddlers and older children to duck in and get a "baby fix" by cuddling the itty bitties.

Almost all the babies at the orphanage, from newborn on, are now in FKI's First Hugs infant nurture program.  

Some of the babies have no special needs, and others have correctable needs like cleft palates.    We saw infants soon to have their surgeries and some post surgery and healing nicely. 

Some of the babies have more profound needs, including CP and Down's Syndrome.   These children, who are less likely to be adopted, are the ones who will benefit most directly from the new therapy program! 

At one point the orphanage was home to over 400 infants, very few with special needs.   It was a heroic challenge for staff to keep up with them all.  Today, the orphanage is a quieter place, but the children's individual needs can be more profound and challenging.

Their aunties keep all the babies clean and cuddled. You can see their little personalities emerging already.   They were certainly curious about us.  They were not afraid at all of our new faces, and were ready to play! 

The babies' day alternates between napping, floor time (practice for learning to rolling over and handle toys!), cuddling time, bouncy chair time, and walker time.   The awake babies are taken to either the First Hugs Room or another play room, so as not to wake their sleeping little buddies.

First Hugs aunties do floor time with the babies throughout the orphanage, not just in the First Hugs room.  First Hugs is now integrated throughout the orphanage!

There were many sweet touches in the cribs, including little stuffed toys and colorful blankets and bedspreads.

The cribs, painted a pretty blue, are the original cribs that held many of the children now adopted from Fuling.  In the "old days" these wooden cribs, which feature a bunny on each side, were green and white.  They were repainted when the orphanage was moved to its new location on Gathering Clouds Mountain.      

In the orphanage kitchen bottles are still boiled, formula mixed, and rice porridge made for the littlest ones.  Perhaps greatest evidence of the babies are the stacks of cloth diapers setting in different rooms throughout the orphanage.   The aunties seemed always prepared to make a quick change! 

The little ones without special needs or correctable needs will join their new families soon, and each will be stronger for the care given by the First Hugs program, which has been successful in helping hundreds of little ones keep on target developmentally and learn to to bond before meeting their new parents. 

Along with helping to put in place the new therapy program for children with special needs, FKI will continue to work with orphanage staff to keep babies in their care happy and thriving.  


All Together Now
June 3. 2010

This morning we took a break from one-on-one therapy and staff training and got aunties and kids together in FKI's First Hugs room for some group therapy and fun.   

One of the challenges the aunties have is keeping children of such varying abilities all occupied and learning at the same time.  

One answer?  Circle time!  

We put our raucous crew together on the floor with their aunties.   We all sang Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star in Chinese first, adding lots of hand motions.  Clapping, reaching above their heads, and moving in tandem with their aunties and other kids helps toddlers with disabilities learn to be social and develop motor skills.    After fifteen minutes of circle time, the children were much calmer and better able to focus.

The aunties asked, "What if some of the kids can't participate?"  The therapists reminded them that some children with disabilities just need longer and some help to learn.   Be patient, and keep bringing them in to the group activity   Accept them for who they are, while at the same time asking them to continue to expand their range.  

Kids with disabilities are much more capable than we often realize! 

Time for the obstacle course!  

Sandra and Nancy took therapy cushions and a variety of play tools to set up a little "track" for the kids.  They would have to climb through, under and over objects. 

This would help them learn to better negotiate the world around them, gain better balance, and to be a little daring to try new things, too!

It was, in a word, hilarious.  

Half the kids went off like shot.  Some were freaked out about to climbing through a tube, but we encouraged them to try--and they did.   

Kids who could not walk pulled themselves through.   (A few hurried back to go through it again.) The aunties looked skeptical at first, but by the end they were applauding, too.       

The effort for much of this morning was teaching the children to work and play together.   This way they can learn to make friends, interact with others, and learn new skills.  

Teamwork does not just apply to their aunties.  It applies to the kids, too.  

They fought over the toys, but they also shared.  They also loved some of the special needs equipment.  Pushing little Hui Hui in her chair, and passing toys back and forth to her, became the best fun ever!

It became obvious within just a short time that many of the children with cerebral palsy and other harder to diagnose disabilities would grow mentally very fast with more intense education.  This little guy in the yellow, loved the flashcards.  He and his friend Aileen, who also has CP, are a dynamic duo just raring to go!

The aunties under Dr. Zha's guidance will work into the kids daily schedule circle time and guided movement time.   There are close to 20 children who are ready to try this kind of interactive learning. 

The toys donated by Fuling adoptive families will come in handy!  (Thanks, everyone!)

And what did we "on the ground" FKI people, Kathlene and Jenoys, think?   We wished we could do the obstacle course, too!  But even more than that, we could see the possibilities for these kids and wanted to help more. 

Today's group fun is a superb start to the special needs preschool FKI will assist the orphanage staff in developing. 

Every child at the orphanage will be a learning child!

 

 

 

 


Work Is Fun, Fun Is Work
June 2.2010

This is Hui Hui and her First Hugs Auntie.  

Today in the therapy room set up at the orphanage children were brought in for an evaluation by our therapists Nancy and Sandra.  They would demonstrate to the caregivers (or aunties) and Dr. Zha ways to help each child grow stronger and expand her or his capabilities.  

Their First Hugs aunties lead their little charges in.  Hui Hui had to be carried in, because at age three she still cannot walk because of her cerebral palsy.

Her hands are also perpetually clenched, as you see in this photo.  Her daily interaction has been largely holding and cuddling by her auntie and sitting on a reclining chair watching her more mobile little pals play.   She cannot speak.   Despite her lovely smile, Hui Hui has been locked inside herself because of her CP.

The first thing the therapists did was consider the ways holding Hui Hui could be improved in order to loosen her tightened limbs. 

They demonstrated simple techniques the aunties could use.   Her auntie practiced on Hui Hui, who smiled and tolerated the squeezes and stimulation.  

But life got much more interesting when one of the special chairs FKI donated was set up for her.

Nancy, Sandra and Dr. Zha spent some time positioning Hui Hui's back and feet to help straighten her limbs and raise her head up. 

Children's brains work best when the child's spine and neck are straight, because they can gather information head on.  They are more likely to participate, and learning requires interaction.

 

Doesn't Hui Hui look fetching and suddenly older in her new chair?  Voila!  This is the toddler she really is.

Next out came the bright, fun toys donated by Fuling adoptive parents.   The therapists began with coaching Hui Hui to begin moving toy cars back and forth on her little table to loosen her arms, increase her range of motion, and help her eyes learn to better scan.  

Did she like her toys?  Well, duh.

We cheered every time she managed to open those clenched fingers to pick up her car, and every time she managed to pass it back to one of us.   We could see she was thinking hard and working hard to get her hand to the toy then to make the toy skitter across the table--and she was loving it.

After work, comes play--because Hui Hui's chair has wheels!  

Nancy pushed Hui Hui out into the hallway, where her little peers gathered around her.   For the first time she was eye to eye with other children her age.  They "helped" by pushing her up and down the hallway, with a little steering by Nancy.   The orphanage's 2nd floor was loud with their happy sounds.  They were all playing together!  Hui Hui's glee was contagious.     Work can be fun!

More stories coming soon about the beautiful kids at the orphanage.


A Little Girl "Grew" Today
June 1.2010

Today we set up shop at the orphanage.     Our team was given a quiet room at the end of one of the 2nd floor halls, where all day children were brought in by their aunties for the therapists to look at.  (A few curious toddlers also wandered in, then stayed for the cuddles and tickles from the FKI team.)  

The room we worked in holds physical therapy equipment given by FKI donors--chairs, tables, mats and walkers designed especially to assist children with disabilities.  

We would put those tools to work! 

Cerebral palsy is one of the most challenging disabilities for orphanage staff to address, so we focused on those children today.  At around 2:00 pm we asked to see Aileen, one of the children Fuling Kids International has sponsored in both Foster Care and  First Hugs.  

Aileen's cerebral palsy has affected her legs so profoundly she cannot walk.    Her last report from the orphanage said that even after surgeries to try to relax her spastic muscles and intensive therapies at a hospital in Chongqing her ability to use her legs was no better.  The staff were at this point, to quote the report, "Hoping for a miracle."

An auntie brought Aileen in to see us, and she showed right off she wanted no business with us.   Her face was flooded with tears.   

Nancy and Sandra, our team's therapists, sat a little away from her at first so as not to scare her.  They asked several questions about her surgeries, the state of her muscles and legs. The orphanage staff and Jenoys and I were quick to share what we knew.  Then we waited. 

We had seen Nancy and Sandra do amazing things with the children all morning.  What we expected to hear was, "Here are some ways you can help Aileen walk."

But Nancy's first words, after a quiet consultation with Sandra was, "You need to think about getting Aileen a wheel chair."    There was a a palpable disappointment and sadness in the room. This little six year old had endured so much, and in the end she would still not be able to walk?  It was heartbreaking.

Nancy went on to explain that maybe one day Aileen could walk, and there were therapies to work her in that direction.

By focusing so completely on her legs, we were all missing what Aileen needed even more at this point, and that was the chance to experience the world around her with the kind of mobility a good chair would give her.   A good chair would hold her upright, let her zip around the orphanage and grounds, and simply let her explore.  

Aileen, both therapists told us, can only grow by experiencing the world around her as much as she can on and on her own terms.  

Nancy and Sandra pointed out Aileen is a obviously a smart little girl and full of potential.  But cognitively she would not grow if she could not learn to strengthen all of her abilities and her confidence in herself.

These pictures show the real miracle that occurred today.   

First Nancy taught Dr. Zha, the new head of therapy program at the orphanage, and two caregivers how to help Aileen learn to transfer herself from a little chair to another nearby chair.  This skill is important if she is to move on her own from her bed to a wheel chair and from the wheel chair to the dinner table, for example.  

Nancy practiced on Dr. Zha, because Aileen would still weep if anyone but the aunties touched her.  Then Dr. Zha practiced on Aileen.    

When Aileen stood for the first time, flat on her feet, using the methods Nancy showed us, her face opened into a smile.  She was standing!  We all cheered.  Soon she was letting the therapists teach her how to strengthen her own legs by how she stood. 

But they didn't stop there.  Aileen also learned to put on her shirt and take it off all by herself, to draw a circle with a marker, and to brush her teeth on her own. 

With every new skill she seemed to expand in confidence--and of course all our cheering and high fiving didn't hurt either!         

While Nancy and Sandra worked with Aileen, Dr. Zha and the aunties took down notes and practiced the skills on Aileen and even on therapists themselves.  The staff were considering how to help Aileen and other children struggling with CP.  

You could feel the optimism expand in the room:  There are real ways to help the children, and together we can make this happen.  

By the time the session was over, Jenoys and I were in tears, and the electricity--the hope--in the room was palpable.   A little girl "grew" right in front of us today.  

That is the kind of miracle we are working to see repeated again and again as our new therapy program develops. 

 

 

The Travel Team


Jenoys Usher is Secretary of FKI's Board of Directors and chairs First Hugs efforts.  Her daughter Meredith was adopted from Fuling.  Jenoys, a pharmacist, lives in Missouri.

Kathlene Postma is Chair of the Board and co-founder of FKI.  Her oldest daughter, Sofie, was adopted from Fuling.  Kathlene, a writer, teaches at Pacific University in Oregon.
   

Sandra Rogers is an occupational therapist and professor in the graduate program at Pacific University in Oregon.  Pediatric assessment and therapy is one of her areas of expertise.

Nancy Cicirello is a physical therapist and professor in the graduate program at Pacific University.  Nancy has provided pediatric therapy and training services to children and professionals around the world.
   

Shi Shanhui (Violin)is facilitator, translator and interpreter for FKI.  He also handles the finding location service for Fuling adoptive families.  Shanhui works for an international company in Chongqing.

Jo Li & Dong Lijie.  Jo is interpreter for the therapy training team. She is a Ph.D student in economics at University of Missouri-Kansas City. Her mother, Dong Lijie, assists the team in therapy training.  She lives in Nanjing.

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Checking on Foster Kids  June 4, 2010

Time Out for Babies June 4, 2010

All Together Now June 3, 2010

Work is Fun, Fun is Work  June 2, 2010

A Little Girl "Grew" Today June 1, 2010

 

 

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