Practice, Practice, Practice
June 5. 2010
This morning Dr. Zha and Yang Pei Feng wanted to give the caregivers a chance to practice
what they had learned earlier this week from Sandra and Nancy.
They also had questions about more children they wanted help evaluating. We set to work early in order to see
as many children as possible.
One little girl the therapists had not met earlier was pointed
out by Dr. Zha and Yang Pei Feng.
Both women were very concerned
about Lily, a 20 month old. She seemed to have a general lack of affect.
How could they and her aunties help Lily to grow physically stronger and
more interactive?
Nancy showed ways to encourage Lily to hold herself more erect and
work her core muscles. Dr. Zha also noted how given the
opportunity, Lily would drift away
from
the other children rather than interact. Sandra and Nancy
encouraged the staff to gently but firmly draw her back in to play.
Lily needs more intensive "face time" than other
children in order to learn to take and give visual cues. Dr. Zha and the therapists
showed Lily's First Hugs auntie
simple ways in which she could help.
As the day progressed, the strategy for how to best assist the
aunties in their work with the children became one of practicality:
Children with disabilities would receive therapy integrated
as much as possible into their daily routines.
This means helping a child learn to hold a spoon during lunch time
and to practice transferring from bed to a chair in the morning while
he is getting up.
This approach would help the aunties manage more than one child
at once and help the child gain tangible skills useful in every day
living.
Children with disabilities living anywhere in the world thrive best
when they have a parent to advocate for them and the financial support,
often substantial, necessary to get them the medical and therapeutic
intervention they need. These children have no family, although
the staff work hard to give them a loving home.
The rising number of children with special needs at the orphanage makes
it impossible to provide every child with the
full-time care giver and the intensive therapy each of them would need for
more rapid improvement.
But even without families, miracles can occur for these kids with
the right training and the right techniques at the right time.
Kindness, determination and practical education go a long way in bringing a child toward
independence and growth!
Between
sessions with individual children Nancy and Sandra
demonstrated on the staff skills they could use to
help children, such as learning to stand, roll over, and build core
strength.
Staff
learned what it felt like to the child to receive different kinds of
therapies as well as how to recognize body points they would focus upon
when working with the children.
Nancy and Sandra emphasized slow, careful treatments that would help
without risk of hurting.
The
other constant goal will be to make the environment as rich as possible
for the children. Because of their disabilities, many of the kids will
grow up in the orphanage. Integrating joyful learning into
their daily lives is crucial.
The children will learn at different rates and will need to work
harder at
building different skills. Learning for them must take place in an atmosphere
that is both structured and yet open enough to accommodate their individual needs.
As we collaborate with the orphanage staff this coming year to
develop a special needs classroom, the kids can continue to learn with
simple methods integrated into the playrooms throughout the orphanage.
The children's avid curiosity and energy makes them great little students already!
Learning from Each Other June 5. 2010
One
of the keys to good cross-cultural training and team building is
recognizing what we can learn from each other in order to best help the
children. FKI's history with the orphanage--almost ten
years in the making!--has been crucial our in finding common ground.
Kathlene and Jenoys met with Director Chen and orphanage programming directors
Huang Yan and Dr. Zha several times during this amazing week in order to
assess how the programs FKI helped create and fund are doing.
We talked about so many of the children we'd like to help, and
Director Chen and orphanage staff spoke to us about the successes and
challenges they've experienced with the kids.
The
urgency to create a special needs classroom was one of our chief topics
of conversation, along with the most efficient way to provide therapy.
We all agreed these were our highest priorities.
Some of our long discussion sessions were spent brainstorming
together how FKI's focus on education--for staff and children--could
best support the goals the orphanage staff have for the children.
These little residents are the ones the programs are created for, so we all had to listen to them as well!
We also considered how to best help the caregivers, who are facing challenges as they work with children
with more
complex needs. Care giving for children with special needs can be
exhausting
work.
These women have helped hundreds of children thrive and reach loving
homes. They bring a rich, practical experience to all they do at the
orphanage, so building on their knowledge and heart is on everyone's
mind.
The next step is finding creative ways to get these caring
staff more of the support, training and relief they need to continue to do
their good work.
Certainly the new orphanage's accessibility-friendly facility and
gorgeous location has gone a long way toward enhancing the possibilities for the children with special needs.
All of us on the team were impressed with the green, beautiful
grounds and play places. The older residents we met were interested to share what they know as well!
Social welfare institutes in China are also home to the elderly without
families.
We
encountered several of these lovely people on our daily walks to and from
the dining hall for lunch
and as we caught the staff shuttle bus back to Fuling at the end of the
day.
The age of some of the women was amazing--one we met was 100!
We were impressed by their spry, healthy attitudes.
Nancy received an impromptu Tai Qi lesson from one of the
"grandmas."

The positive outlook of the staff and elderly is contagious. They
stay upbeat while facing tough questions and needs. We were inspired by their "can
do attitudes." The senior staff and caregivers are invested in the training and ideas we've shared
with them.
We all left our meetings with lists of what can
each bring back to the table in order to best work as an international team
in this ongoing effort to improve the lives of these great kids.
Certainly the kids are the most inspiring of all, although a few of
us may take "learn from the children" a little too literally!

Checking on Our Foster Kids
June 4. 2010
Our
hard-working therapists Nancy and Sandra and FKI volunteers Kathlene and
Jenoys were taken by the orphanage staff to visit foster children in
their homes. Huang Yan, director of the foster care program,
wanted us to see two of our sponsored children. One of the
children was a four year old girl who seems reluctant to speak, and the
other a six year old boy with autism.
Those foster families wanted some support and feedback, and so we
were welcomed into each comfortable home--one close by the old orphanage
site in downtown Fuling and the other not far from the Yangtze River.
The therapists made quick progress with the little girl, after
showing her foster mom and grandma fun ways to help her talk.
(Sandra put together a little wooden airplane and flew it in the room.
That was quite a hit!)
The foster child with autism looks beautifully cared for, but his
needs are more intense. His foster mother and father need more
support. The therapists gave them some excellent ideas and showed
some techniques to help him. His foster father asked good
questions about his foster son. You could see he was struggling
with understanding his son's mannerisms and challenges.
The understanding of autism is just beginning to
spread
in China. After visiting this little guy and his worried
foster parents, we put doing more to help children with autism on our
list of FKI's priorities. We were not able to get photos
in the foster homes to show you, so we are sharing with you some pix of
other great kids:
The photos in this blog entry are all of foster children sponsored
by FKI donors.
Most have a mild disability of some kind. They are mostly
of school age and receive loving care in their foster families, who send
them to school.
We got to see so many of the kids at the same time, because several
gathered at the orphanage for an afternoon in order to
celebrate
Children's Day.
They are a playful, energetic bunch. We visited with them
all for a little while--okay, we played like crazy wth them for an hour
or so, because these kids have high energy levels!


We played ball, and one of our Chinese volunteers read stories to one
of our older, sponsored children, a gentle girl with a mild mental
disability.
The children look great! Thank you to everyone who has
donated to FKI's Foster Care Program. You have given a child a
family.

Time Out for Babies June
3. 2010
The FKI team took a few short breaks from therapy work with
the toddlers and older children to duck in and get a "baby fix" by
cuddling the itty bitties.
Almost all the babies at the orphanage, from newborn on, are now in
FKI's First Hugs infant nurture program.
Some of the babies have no special needs, and others have correctable
needs like cleft palates. We saw infants soon to have
their surgeries and some post surgery and healing nicely.
Some of the babies have more profound needs, including CP and Down's
Syndrome. These children, who are less likely to be adopted,
are the ones who will benefit most directly from the new therapy
program!
At
one point the orphanage was home to over 400 infants, very few with
special needs. It was a heroic challenge for staff to keep
up with them all. Today, the orphanage is a quieter place, but the
children's individual needs can be more profound and challenging.
Their aunties keep all the babies clean and cuddled. You can see
their little personalities emerging already. They were
certainly curious about us. They were not afraid at all of our new
faces, and were ready to play!
The babies' day alternates between napping, floor time (practice for
learning to rolling over and handle toys!), cuddling time, bouncy
chair
time, and walker time. The awake babies are taken to either
the First Hugs Room or another play room, so as not to wake their
sleeping little buddies.
First Hugs aunties do floor time with the babies throughout the
orphanage, not just in the First Hugs room. First Hugs is now
integrated throughout the orphanage!
There were many sweet touches in the cribs, including little stuffed
toys and colorful blankets and bedspreads.
The cribs, painted a pretty blue, are the original cribs that held
many of the children now adopted from Fuling. In the "old days"
these wooden cribs, which feature a bunny on each side, were green and
white. They were repainted when the orphanage was moved to its new
location on Gathering Clouds
Mountain.
In the orphanage kitchen bottles are still boiled, formula mixed, and
rice porridge made for the littlest ones. Perhaps greatest
evidence of the babies are the stacks of cloth diapers setting in
different rooms throughout the orphanage. The aunties seemed
always prepared to make a quick change!
The little ones without special needs or correctable needs will join
their new families soon, and each will be stronger for the care given by
the First Hugs program, which has been successful in helping hundreds of
little ones keep on target developmentally and learn to to bond before
meeting their new parents.
Along with helping to put in place the new therapy program for
children with special needs, FKI will continue to work with orphanage
staff to keep babies in their care happy and thriving.

All Together Now June
3. 2010
This morning we took a break from one-on-one therapy and staff
training and got aunties and kids together in FKI's First Hugs room for
some group therapy and fun.
One of the challenges the aunties have is keeping children of such
varying abilities all occupied and learning at the same time.
One answer? Circle time!
We put our raucous crew together on the floor with their aunties.
We all sang Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star in Chinese first, adding lots
of hand motions. Clapping, reaching above their heads, and movi ng
in tandem with their aunties and other kids helps toddlers with
disabilities learn to be social and develop motor skills.
After fifteen minutes of circle time, the children were much calmer and
better able to focus.
The aunties asked, "What if some of the kids can't participate?"
The therapists reminded them that some children with disabilities
just need longer and some help to learn. Be patient, and
keep bringing them in to the group activity Accept them for
who they are, while at the same time asking them to continue to expand
their range.

Kids with disabilities are much more capable than we often realize!
Time for the obstacle course!
Sandra and Nancy took therapy cushions and a variety of play tools to
set up a little "track" for the kids. They would have to climb
through, under and over objects.
This would help them learn to better negotiate the world around them,
gain better balance, and to be a little daring to try new things, too!
It was, in a word, hilarious.
Half the kids went off like shot. Some were freaked out about to climbing
through a tube, but we encouraged them to try--and they did.
Kids who could not walk pulled themselves through. (A few hurried back to go through it again.) The
aunties looked skeptical at first, but by the end they were applauding,
too.
The
effort for much of this morning was teaching the children to work and
play together. This way they can learn to make friends, interact with others, and learn new skills.
Teamwork does not just apply to their aunties. It applies to
the kids, too.
They fought over the toys, but they also shared. They also
loved some of the special needs equipment. Pushing little Hui Hui
in her chair, and passing toys back and forth to her, became the best
fun ever!
It became obvious within just a short time that many of the children
with cerebral palsy
and other harder to diagnose disabilities would grow
mentally very fast with more intense education. This little guy in
the yellow, loved the flashcards. He and his friend Aileen, who
also has CP, are a dynamic duo just raring to go!
The aunties under Dr. Zha's guidance will work into the kids daily
schedule circle time and guided movement time. There are
close to 20 children who are ready to try this kind of interactive
learning.
The toys donated by Fuling adoptive families will come in handy!
(Thanks, everyone!)
And what did we "on the ground" FKI people, Kathlene and Jenoys,
think? We wished we could do the obstacle course, too!
But even more than that, we could see the possibilities for
these kids and wanted to help more.
Today's group fun is a superb start to the special needs preschool
FKI will assist the orphanage staff in developing.
Every child at the orphanage will be a learning child!
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